Insecurities: Don’t let us live freely
When we hold to a false image of ourselves and live in a fear of losing it or live in a discontent state and are scared that the world would know of it, this asserts our inner insecurities.
When we hold to a false image of ourselves and live in a fear of losing it or live in a discontent state and are scared that the world would know of it, this asserts our inner insecurities.
Sometimes we become our own roadblocks to success. When we are at ease with our failures, and our life resonates more with failing than with succeeding, success starts scaring us. As success brings more responsibilities, creates more performance pressure that leads to stress and anxiety, and to escape these feelings, we consciously or unconsciously get into the habit of self-sabotaging.
When we start validating ourselves we take the charge of our happiness. Self validations brings the confidence to believe in oneself, which is healthy and uplifting.
You can never grow and change for better unless you acknowledge your pain. Once you have acknowledged your pain and addressed it with the right action, the doors of your growth open up for you.
In life we come across diverse situations and people, all demanding a different approach from us, and that won’t be possible if are clung to some specific identities, flexibility is a must for stability, and flexibility comes to one who is unshakable at the very core.
Walking down the street, as Sheena crosses by the new store in the city, her eyes hook on to the beautiful, glittering and shimmering magenta gown, flaunted by the mannequin. She was nostalgic to see the crafted fabric. Though she already had six gowns in different colours, she couldn’t restrain herself from buying the seventh one. To complete the look, she also buys a nice pair of shoes along with some beautiful Jewellery. “Something is still missing’’, she wonders. She buys a classy handbag to go with her dress.
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Your life is a reflection of your choices and every choice matters. We make several choices every day; from the really significant ones- Who should be my life partner Which college should I select for higher education, What is right for me, a job or a business to the not so important ones- Which dress …
Gratitude can shift us from the state of gatherers to givers. What seems meager becomes profound when seen through the lens of gratitude. Let’s be thankful.
Patience
helps you in sticking to something which might not be pleasant at present but
may be fruitful in the future
Belief systems are the thought patterns that our brain selects to always be in a safer and conflict-free position which would otherwise consume an enormous amount of energy and effort, that we want to avoid